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Getting To Commitment Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language, and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment issues or involved with someone who is.

He's Scared, She's Scared Available for the first time in paperback, this follow-up to the phenomenally successful Men Who Can't Love tackles the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom gained by personal experience, He's Scared, She's Scared offes guidance for all of us who want genuine, sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.

Men Who Can't Love This book saved me from going crazy and from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded just like the people in this book she'd read - "Men Who Can't Love". I got on line and nabbed a copy. What a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the same time.

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I came across the phrase "commitment phobia" when helping a good friend through a relationship crisis she was experiencing in December of 2000. Her complaint was that the man she was with repeatedly jumped from one extreme to the other (emotionally). She told me someday he acted like he couldn't get enough of her and the next day he would tell her that he needed more "space". Confused, she confided in me and over time I became painfully aware of some similar patterns between me and this man.

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The moment of truth came when she shared with me a book she picked up called "Men Who Can't Love.....". The stories within the book were shockingly true to my own life relationships and seriously overwhelmed me. For the first time I knew why words like "intimacy" and "commitment" panicked me. I never truly believed that I could be a phobic person and so I never accepted this idea in the past.But after that day it all came together........my attraction to non-emotional men, why I can't lay with someone in the same bed all night, why I feel like I need to "get up and go" after sex, why I can't commit to anything-not even plans with family or friends, why I hyperventilate at the thought of "forever", why I am uncomfortable with simple gestures like holding hands, looking into someone eyes or hugging, and why I have anxiety attacks whenever I get to the "third month" stage of a relationship.

I could go on but I would need to write a book, too. I still believed I could overcome this phobia on my own until a couple of months ago when I found the love of my life. A friend who I've known for about 12 years now but never thought of romantically until we were both free to explore the possibility of a relationship for the first time in our friendship.I fell hard but my anxiety grew more out of control . In my ignorance, I expected the opposite. I thought in a passionate loving relationship my anxiety would magically disappear. Love conquers all, right? Wrong, with commitment phobia it only gets worse. Love means more intimacy and intimacy causes PANIC for commitment phobics.

The constant heart palpitations, sleepless nights, cold sweats and non eating I was experiencing ended up leading me to therapy. I am not comfortable communicating my feelings to anyone but it was my only hope. I am making an effort to stay involved in the therapy process and am learning how to live with this emotional obstacle. It is a day to day challenge but I know I'm not alone. Hello to all of you who know what its like to be a commitment phobic person. I believe there is a light at the end the tunnel.........

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