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CP) Johns views on Commitmentphobia
Let me enlighten you with a male perspective. I do not believe at all in this commitment phobic philosophy. This term is used as an attempt to ease the misfortune of a terminated relationship. An analogy is when something doesn't happen as planned in one's life, they ease their misfortune by believing that it must not have been in God's plan, which is a crock of shit as well, because there is no such master plan to begin with.
The truth is that people won't commit because they feel that there may be someone better for them than the person they are currently with. Rather than being mature and honest about it by severing the ties, they prefer to let the woman "mess up", so to speak, so that it can warrant a break up without the man feeling or looking guilty. The reason the man may come back to the relationship has nothing to do with confusion. He just can't stand the thought of the woman possibly becoming intimate with someone else, so he is in limbo with the relationship (one foot in, one foot out).
In addition, the man has become so comfortable and accustomed to the routines of the relationship, that he is afraid to be without her and search for the one that will truly allow him commit. Just like a drug. A drug addict may know that the drug(woman) is not right for him, but continues because it's an addiction. To sum this up, if I found someone who was gorgeous, stimulated my mind, and possessed other admirable attributes, then I would have no problem committing. The dilemma is that I tend to lower my expectations, (as most men), and just settle for someone in the beginning, and building a relationship out of that only leads to the inevitable.
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