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I am a 27 year old woman who is very good looking, funny, smart, and independent. However, I keep getting into relationships that end up breaking my heart. The truth is is that I am scared to death of someone really knowing me and I don't truly believe that I am lovable. I had a history of abuse in childhood and a alcoholic parent, and I have a history of depression, that I am trying to come to terms with, but it still keeps in me that deep belief that though I am beautiful on the outside, I am flawed and ugly on the inside and thus I don't believe I can truly be loved by someone "normal" . Thus I get involved with men that are also "scarred" either commitment phobes themselves, alcoholics, guys with girlfriends etc, guys with MAJOR ex-girlfriend baggage and I tend to idealize them and then when things don't work out beat up on myself.
And I've done some things to people that I am not proud of. The paradox is that I desperately want a relationship, and a healthy relationship but I feel that I don't have many options. I am always the giver and at the end of the day I just end up feel used. I am dating someone in the same boat as me and he is a truly wonderful person but it is hard to be with someone with the same issues. I don't want CP behaviour to ruin this, because it has the potential to be a good relationship. I really want to get better, what do I do?
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