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I have been involved with a CP for two years...it has been a rollercoaster ride because John also has a depression disorder ...he has broken up with me several times for no apparent reason...then always comes back..after me calling and begging...I finally read your book and stopped all that and now he is slowly on the way back except his commitment phobia seems to be making it a slow process
His symptoms of this phobia are:
He can never make plans a head of time...he is always late and sometimes just shows up..never a definite plan
He lived alone then he moved in with roommates..even though he owns 4 houses..and now he is unhappy there
He never finishes anything he starts
He starts to get close...talks about our future and thats when he runs
He cant spend the night at my house because he has nightmares and breaks out in a sweat
He has told me hisself he is commitment phobic...because he was married twice and had some bad relationships and things happened to him in the past. and he doesnt want to be hurt again.. he says if he could get married he would marry me
In the beginning he chased me like crazy..tried to get me to move in with him..talked about marriage..told me he loved me first...made me absolutely crazy about him..then he started backing off
The list could go on and on
He broke up with me about three months ago..and has been calling and coming to see me off and on...I of course at first called and asked to see him...for awhile...then I read your book ..tried to stick by the rules...well I messed up some:)...but in the last few weeks..he started calling and coming around more regular...and last week he came by I wasnt home like he thought I would be and he called me the next day all upset saying he looked all over town for me and demanded to know where I was and who I was with...then he started calling everyday...came over each day this weekend....and I of course started falling into our same routine....he didnt call yesterday ..but did call today....but I have noticed when he was here...he wouldnt take his shirt off like normal and he didnt want to eat..I asked him about it...and he said something about it being to much for him...I understand it to be about him feeling to comfortable and hence more committed..though he did say as if to himself...Im so happy when Im here..I feel like this is where I belong..why is that....I said John I dont know you will have to figure that out for yourself...I believe he would like to be with me in a relationship but the phobia is the problem....I need more info on how to handle the CP...(when will your new book be out?
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