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Getting To Commitment

Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language, and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment issues or involved with someone who is.


He's Scared, She's Scared

Available for the first time in paperback, this follow-up to the phenomenally successful Men Who Can't Love tackles the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom gained by personal experience, He's Scared, She's Scared offes guidance for all of us who want genuine, sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.


Men Who Can't Love

This book saved me from going crazy and from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded just like the people in this book she'd read - "Men Who Can't Love". I got on line and nabbed a copy. What a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the same time.


I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality

This is a great book for an inside look at Borderline Personality Disorder. If you have a person with BPD in life this book is a must have. If you have BPD it will help you understand that some of your behaviors that seem unusual to other are understandable and can be explained and treated.

A Former CP Story

I know I have been a cp in the past, I married a totally unavailable man, but stayed married 10 yrs suffering abuse, the marriage was sacred to me. When I divorced I got into an affair with a married man, for 1 and 1/2 yrs. He said he was getting ready to leave his wife and had mentioned it to his son that he may divorce but the guilt and wrongness of the relationship was killing me and I left. I had became a Christian and was healed from a lot of childhood pain, after leaving this I met a man and became engaged, then he changed totally 2 days after giving me a ring.

Then I met a man who I respected because he didn't want to marry right away. 3 yrs later he was talking marriage without a definite proposal, then he backed off. Then the married man was back in my life because his wife died. By this time I really have grown to the point I really want an intimate and committed relationship. I had had the intimacy with him because we could not commit, I guess, and I had never found it with anyone else.

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I was thrilled to have that opportunity with someone I had loved so much. He immediately began talking marriage, but would back off, then come back, then back off, constantly putting up walls to prevent us from becoming as close as we were before. He was still angry at me for leaving the relationship 10 yrs before or at least mentioned it many times and we talked about it until I thought he was past it, 7 months later when we should have been closer, he up and begins dating someone else, citing he was looking for something and maybe he could find everything with one woman. One of the things he like admittedly was money, she has lots of it. So, now 8 months later they are married, yes, he backed out of the relationship, telling friends he only said he might want to get married and she began planning the wedding, but back he went, then 2 days before the wedding he called it off, but ended up going through with it.

This was the biggest disappointment I have ever experienced. He had led me to believe I was the only one he'd had an affair with but I found out that was not true at all. It all left me so confused, because he actually seemed like he wanted to have what I wanted but did every thing to ruin it. Now, I have to convince myself that he will continue what he did in his first marriage to this woman, even though I believed in him so much before, or at least this would make me feel that I was not the looser. I cannot go through this again with another man.

Former CP lover.

From Commitment Phobe to "I Do"! A ten-step plan for winning your CP's heart and getting that long overdue & much deserved commitment. Get the Commitment Phobe to Make a Commitment! Join Our Awesome Community and talk with other CPs and CP Lovers!

Dream Chasers: The Commitment Phobe Addiction (Falling in Love and Dealing with a Commitmentphobic Person). You can be reading this insightful information, written especially for those who are in love with a commitment phobic person, in less than two minutes! (NOTE: This webBook is free when you join our community!)

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The Hell with Love: Poems to Mend a Broken Heart
Finally a book of poetry that describes every emotion you go through when you are in love and heart broken. This book is amazing and wonderful. I recommend it to who ever loves poetry and ever had a broken heart.

He's Just Not That Into You (The Newly Expanded Edition): The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
It seems like everywhere you turn the phrase "He's just not that into you" is being thrown around. And for good reason! The ladies are finally done waiting by the phone - hey, why sit at home for the phone to ring when it's so obvious that he's just not that into you?

Women Men Love, Women Men Leave: What Makes Men Want to Commit?
In easy psychological terms, this book helps a woman understand why a man may react negatively to her even when she feels she's doing everything right for a relationship. With different female personalities portrayed, the reader will find themselves fitting one or more of the profiles.

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