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I am not sure where to go from here. I am the CP. Yes, I am a woman. I am 31 years old. I am afraid of commitment with someone that I love. I am not affraid of commitment with someone I do not care about. I have carried on 3 long relationships. Two of them were six years and the other one was two years. I even got married. I did almost hyperventilate during the wedding. Even my father thought I would pass out. He dragged me down the aisle. The whole church was hysterical with laughter.
My marriage was a disaster.
Anyone that I really cared for (subconsciously) I ran like hell from.
I have been single for an entire year. I have tried to analyze my past. I feel very bad about the effect I have had on some men. What I have done to them... I never wanted done to me. It breaks my heart. I have only recently realized this. I never did this on purpose. I didn't set out to do it. It unconsciously happened.
I am a very loyal person. If I am with someone, I would never look anywhere else. It never mattered if I was in true love or not. I was always faithful.
I think for me it evolves from the ability not to trust someone. In trusting someone you are very vulnerable. I do not like to feel vulnerable or not in control. It is not because I do not have any love in me. It stems from something deep inside. I haven't figured that part out. Once I solve that mystery I figure I can probably heal.
So...if you have had a failed relationship with a CP, it is more than likely because they cared about you more than they could ever admit or deal with.
On behalf of myself and everyone else out there like me....
I am truly sorry!
I do hope that admitting the problem is half the battle, because I really do want to be in love again.
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