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Getting To Commitment

Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language, and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment issues or involved with someone who is.


He's Scared, She's Scared

Available for the first time in paperback, this follow-up to the phenomenally successful Men Who Can't Love tackles the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom gained by personal experience, He's Scared, She's Scared offes guidance for all of us who want genuine, sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.


Men Who Can't Love

This book saved me from going crazy and from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded just like the people in this book she'd read - "Men Who Can't Love". I got on line and nabbed a copy. What a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the same time.


I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality

This is a great book for an inside look at Borderline Personality Disorder. If you have a person with BPD in life this book is a must have. If you have BPD it will help you understand that some of your behaviors that seem unusual to other are understandable and can be explained and treated.

Well I should have seen the signs from the very beginning and I can't believe I let him consume 5 years of my life. We fell hard for each other, there was a lot of chemistry between us. He never pursued me, it was a mutual sharing and caring relationship.

After 2 years of course, I wondered where this relationship was going. I felt it was time to think about marriage. I remember the first time the issue came up. He was breathing heavy, having a hard time talking about it, stressed to the max. He disclosed he had a problem about commitment but never really loved anyone until I came along and wanted to work on it. We cried together and continued our wonderful times together. That's what I thought love was, working out the problems. I thought he was my soul mate. But time would go by and again I would bring up marriage, I asked him to go to counseling, he agreed , only to back out and say baby, we can work on this together.

I never realized how deep his phobia ran, I knew he truly loved me,and still does, but time went by. Soon it was 4 years and he got a promotion out of state. There was so many excuses why I couldn't move with him. We ended it. I called 2 weeks later to say good-bye. He wanted to come over to talk. He didn't come over to break things off. I still really loved him and thought this was his way of trying to work on his problem. We agreed to have a monogamous long distance relationship seeing each other at least once a month. At first it was Ok but my insecurities of a non- committed man and the distance began to take control of my life. Our lives together became a constant roller coaster ride from looking for property out west together, then him freaking out. Saying he loved me so much , knowing we would be together one day, to him freaking out again.

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Our times were great together but all we started to do is fight about a commitment. Push/Pull. After 7 months, we had one last heated debate. I was basically a mess, he felt pressured and told me to quit calling, no contact just get over it. He was sick of my insecurities of the separation. This is the man who told me only 2 weeks earlier that he wanted to promise me the world. But I have seen the light. After 5 years he is still a confused little boy. He should know what he wants by now and I can no longer continue to feel the constant grieving and pain this relationship has caused. I have begun my healing process with no contact and seeing a therapist. It is hard to let go of the one you love, especially when I feel he really loves me. But he will not face his problem and it is out of my hands. I must start thinking about healing the pain.

Denise

From Commitment Phobe to "I Do"! A ten-step plan for winning your CP's heart and getting that long overdue & much deserved commitment. Get the Commitment Phobe to Make a Commitment! Join Our Awesome Community and talk with other CPs and CP Lovers!

Dream Chasers: The Commitment Phobe Addiction (Falling in Love and Dealing with a Commitmentphobic Person). You can be reading this insightful information, written especially for those who are in love with a commitment phobic person, in less than two minutes! (NOTE: This webBook is free when you join our community!)

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The Hell with Love: Poems to Mend a Broken Heart
Finally a book of poetry that describes every emotion you go through when you are in love and heart broken. This book is amazing and wonderful. I recommend it to who ever loves poetry and ever had a broken heart.

He's Just Not That Into You (The Newly Expanded Edition): The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys
It seems like everywhere you turn the phrase "He's just not that into you" is being thrown around. And for good reason! The ladies are finally done waiting by the phone - hey, why sit at home for the phone to ring when it's so obvious that he's just not that into you?

Women Men Love, Women Men Leave: What Makes Men Want to Commit?
In easy psychological terms, this book helps a woman understand why a man may react negatively to her even when she feels she's doing everything right for a relationship. With different female personalities portrayed, the reader will find themselves fitting one or more of the profiles.

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