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Getting To Commitment

Mr. Steven Carter's great insights into relationship dynamics are presented here in an easy-to-understand language, and without overdoing the psychological perspectives. Many commitment questions are answered here in this book. A must read for anyone afflicted with commitment issues or involved with someone who is.


He's Scared, She's Scared

Available for the first time in paperback, this follow-up to the phenomenally successful Men Who Can't Love tackles the issue of commitmentphobia, that persistent obstacle to truly satisfying contemporary relationships. Authors Stephen Carter and Julia Sokol explore why modern men and women are torn between the desire for intimacy and the equally intense need for independence. Drawing on numerous interviews and real-life scenarios, and written with humor, insight, and the kind of wisdom gained by personal experience, He's Scared, She's Scared offes guidance for all of us who want genuine, sustained intimacy with our romantic partners.


Men Who Can't Love

This book saved me from going crazy and from wasting any more of my precious time with a man who is a consumate commitmentphobic. I got this book after a therapist friend of mine said that all my complaining and moaning about my commitmentphobic boyfriend sounded just like the people in this book she'd read - "Men Who Can't Love". I got on line and nabbed a copy. What a life saver! My jaw dropped as I read this book because it describes the behaviors of commitmentphobics precisely as I have been experiencing my boyfriend's behavior. It's so true that the more I pressed him for answers while trying to understand his avoidant behaviors, the more he withdrew from me. "I don't wanna talk about it" is his mantra. All his behaviors were laid out like his biography in this book. It was shocking and revealing at the same time.


I Hate You, Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality

This is a great book for an inside look at Borderline Personality Disorder. If you have a person with BPD in life this book is a must have. If you have BPD it will help you understand that some of your behaviors that seem unusual to other are understandable and can be explained and treated.

Tammy's Story:

Tammy was what most men would refer to as a 'knock-out'. She was beautiful, with long silky hair, a sleek sensual body, and scorching violet eyes. Yet she couldn't find a man to love her the way she needed to be loved. Of course they all started out great, pursuing her to no end, they would lavish her with expensive presents, and vivid compliments that would make her pulse race. But they either quickly lost interest in her, she lost interest in them, or they lacked the qualities she desired in a mate.

Ron was exciting. Racy, rich, and totally head over heels in love with Tammy. Tammy enjoyed his pursuit. She played hard to get - totally enjoying the attention, and phone calls, and gifts, and flowers, and expensive restaurants, and island get-aways. She was swept off her feet in just a mere three-months flat. Three of the most exhilarating, thrilling months of her life.  She soon found the two of them sharing intimate confessions of their undying love for each other . It was wonderful! Tammy couldn't imagine being any happier. But then a funny thing happened. Ron, all though in love with Tammy, had stopped pursuing her. And why should he continue, after all - he already won her heart. So their relationship settled down, getting calmer and more comfortable. Where once they never left each other's side, Tammy now found that at cocktail parties they would often drift apart - each visiting their own little preferred group to converse with. Evenings at home were to become just as boring. Their conversations were limited. They both got up in the morning and went to their respective jobs. They both came home at night and ate dinner in silence - and Tammy soon found herself very bored. Ron was stuffy, stoic, unexciting, and totally predictable. Tammy was bored out of her mind!

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Tammy eventually broke it off with Ron when another man, Kevin, took an avid interest in her. Tammy let Kevin pursue her for a couple of months, and she eventually found herself attracted to him. But when Kevin started to feel more secure in the relationship Tammy soon became bored with him, too. She could never spend her life with a man that was so dull!

Then Tammy met a man named Cameron. Where Kevin and Ron had moved mountains trying to win Tammy's heart, Cameron was not at all interested in her. Great beauty or not, he was not to be had. Tammy's life became once again exciting as she was now the pursuer, chasing this man and using every female wile that she had in her. She dressed in her most sexiest, alluring outfits, and donned the most seductive smile. She laughed at all of his jokes and sent him cute little emails. Tammy even found herself in the kitchen, apron on, baking his favorite foods. Finally, all of Tammy's efforts paid off and Cameron admitted he was totally head over heels in love with her. He would never leave her side and begged Tammy for her hand in marriage. Tammy excitedly accepted and they were married just a few weeks later. Five months into their marriage Tammy found herself wondering if she had made a mistake. She wasn't in love with Cameron anymore, and seriously doubted if she ever really was. She promptly filed for a divorce just one-half year after their wedding day. "I just can't spend the rest of my life with a man I don't love," Tammy was quoted as saying.

What was Tammy's problem? Commitment-phobia. Although beautiful, Tammy suffered from low self-esteem. She was in love with the thrill of the kill. It bolstered her ego and made her feel alive and worthy. But once she won she quickly became bored, and those old feelings of inadequacy started to creep up on her. She needed to find a new conquest to quickly replace the boredom.

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It seems like everywhere you turn the phrase "He's just not that into you" is being thrown around. And for good reason! The ladies are finally done waiting by the phone - hey, why sit at home for the phone to ring when it's so obvious that he's just not that into you?

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In easy psychological terms, this book helps a woman understand why a man may react negatively to her even when she feels she's doing everything right for a relationship. With different female personalities portrayed, the reader will find themselves fitting one or more of the profiles.

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